Gain Self-Esteem before you GAIN Confidence to talk to anyone!

good confidence in what you doWhat are elements of Self-Esteem? How important it is to have a high self-esteem before you speak in Public? How much a ‘yes, I can do’ attitude helps you to learn anything faster? How do you see English adding to your self-esteem inventory? One thing is sure, you grow professionally when you have higher confidence and good communication skills. It helps you in more than one way…. to have a higher self-esteem! mobile_msg and self esteemGood news is that anyone can gain confidence to speak in public irrespective of the background or sex. Girls generally get their self-esteem through their good looks, cloths, accessories or jewellery, manners and how well they are able to relate with others (emotional strengths or more in a one-to-one talk) . Boys on the other hand tend to have puffed-up chests when they are questioned on their intelligence, mathematical abilities, risk-taking nature, global outlook, views and physical strengths. They are more prepared to set-out on a dare. These are as the society describes our public behaviors. Our family background, state we belong to, India as country with richness of culture and heritage are all the sources of self-esteem. When we get compliments for our knowledge, skills and abilities we possess we gain on the self-esteem. the higher the gain when the person who gives us this complement is a close associate or the boss. On the other hand when we are rebuked upon by someone when we did our best, our self-esteem does get hurt. But we bring it back by self-consolation that ‘we tried our best’. On the other hand, when in reality we were not work hard-enough (just gave it a half heart-ed try!) and therefore we failed, we do not kick  ourselves and even the rebukes of the family members are take lightly. How much you believe in Luck or God to help you or do you follow a definitive self-chosen path to spirituality also has some result on what you feel about your self-worth. On 29th November 2014 (Saturday Evening): We at T.r.i.c.k.s did a one-hour FREE seminar to announce the start of a 7 session work-shop on:

      ↗HIGHER SELF ESTEEM – HAVE A ‘YES, I CAN’ ATTITUDE! A workshop by ‘Ashish Khurana’, this is part of A T.r.i.c.k.s Seminar Series: 2014 _________________________________________________________ You may mail to: cm@tricksnoida.co.in to register for this seminar

A Free Seminar is held every Saturday 6pm-7pm, it covers: WHAT IS SELF ESTEEM? Why and How to develop Self Esteem even after your School/College or in Adult-hood? DOES SPEAKING IN ENGLISH ADD TO YOUR SELF-ESTEEM?

———-the complete 7-session work-shop contents——-

YOUR SELF ESTEEM INVENTORY

WHAT CAUSES LOW SELF ESTEEM?

DISGUISED LOW SELF ESTEEM

PATTERNS OF LOW SELF ESTEEM

WHAT CAN YOU DO ABOUT YOUR SELF ESTEEM?

LETTING GO OF NEGATIVE ATTITUDES

ARE YOU A PERFECTIONIST?

INCREASING YOUR SELF ESTEEM 4 steps I. LIKING YOURSELF

II. TAKING ACTION TO IMPROVE YOURSELF

III. SELF ESTEEM IS NOT ABOUT CHANGING OTHERS

IV. LETTING GO OF THE PAST

-Note some of these sessions are one-to-one with the counselor or Trainer and rest are done in Saturday open seminar sessions.

The first session of Seminar Series was attend by 12 people: Professionals & Students from different walks of life.

Look for the T.r.i.c.k.s SMS or call for announcement of the next seminar!

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How much self-esteem you add when you are given a chance to speak in front of people?… please comment.

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